When love relations start, there is great expectation, joy and fantasies about future married life. Both plan their coming life together. Not all, but a few relations do not get success in continuing with smooth sailing and break in the middle turning the relations in bitter experiences and with broken dreams.
For such a state, generally, one would blame the other for the break up and prove him or herself to be righteous. This is a blame game though both know the real reason of break up. Main reason behind the breakup of relations could be the lack of trust and mutual understanding. I have personally seen some love-making pairs who could go to any extent to meet his/her love-partner before marriage but do not want to see the face of life partner after a few years of marriage. What does it mean? Either they failed to know and understand his/her love before marriage or again they could not trust and understand his/her life partner after marriage. Where is the fault?
First of all try to find out whether you are really interested to continue the relations. Simply take just one day and instead of blaming the life partner blame yourself for the bad happening in your life. It may work wonder most of the times. Let your partner know your feelings. One should also accept that he/she was at fault, if he/she really feels that he/she was at fault. The feeling should be conveyed.
Most of the new relationships suffer from this type of problems. For any small dispute, partners would keep blaming one another. Actually ego, misunderstanding and lack of trust are the main reasons behind such situations. This is policy of give and take. Give trust and get trust. All these actually help keep a healthy relationship all the time.
When there is no emotional attraction or when the emotional bond between the couple is weak, the sweet relations gradually fades up.
Do you trust your partner and he or she believe that you are honest and trust worthy and do not have hidden agenda. Share your ideas, thoughts and interests with each other to build healthy relations.
Ascendant and Ascendant lord both play important role to know the way of thinking and entire individuality of a person. Apart from Manglik and other factors for match making, this fact should also kept in mind for a long lasting and successful marriage.